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Plenty, Ample or Abundant?

28/12/2019

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The Last Supper - nun, Plautilla Nelli -Florence - c.1565
(We'll never know what was served at Christ's last supper but this is how she saw it - lamb, lettuce, bread, broad-beans (or fava beans), herbs and red wine.  (Personally, I might have added a lemon but...) More about the painting and in particular, the tablecloth next post.

Coco Chanel is reported to have said that before going out, go to the looking glass and remove one thing.  Such strict restraint is difficult for me at times, but I’m working on it.

Around the so-called holiday season, advertising is heavy with food and drink. (And adding to the junk in our environment, are the stocking fillers. Just don't go there!) I wonder at the sanity (and the decorum) of it all. Don’t get me wrong, I’m an indulger. I love specialness, I love treats, I love generosity but are the trinkets and the feasting becoming unseemly?
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When I was in the business of preparing galas for special occasions, everything from weddings to the selling of luxury cars, the underlying theme was over-abundance.  It was important to provide food that was not just generous, special and delicious but it had to be seen to be too much.  It was important to entertain family, friends and clients in such as way that there was enough to discard, to throw away.

A friend described an event overseas where the pre-dinner drinks and nibbles  offered not only elaborate canapés on trays by waiters,  but buffets of ethnic diversity around which to wander - sushi freshly prepared, tiny shashliks on a grill, sliders (that's a mini hamburger, in case you didn't know) Peking Duck pancakes, barbecued ribs - all more than could be consumed - and then guests sat down to dinner!

Is this a way of soothing memories of fear and deprivation in our recent and distant past, in our family, our cultural identity and history? Or is it about power, showing that you can?

It certainly has little to do with hospitality and generosity.  Too much can be embarrassing and now, in the 21st century, perhaps it's also awkward. Waste is no longer chic.
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The President, entertaining National Champions, the Clemson Tigers.
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Feeding the Tigers) And he doesn't think much of the salad eaten by the First Lady.

Vocabulary check...
Ample - generously sufficient to satisfy
Plenty – lots, perhaps more than seemly
Adequate - quite good quality but less than excellent, passable
Abundant - Lots, and lots and lots of it
Groaning - so overladen that the tables (and guests)  groan beneath the weight.

Has the festive season made me grumpy?
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ROSA MATTO
29/12/2019 08:30:40 am

This is such an important discussion, Catherine. This is what I think: it is a holiday, so 'adequate' seems a bit restrained, puritanical and far too disciplined for my sensibilities. For a celebration, I'd go to 'ample' - a bit of excessive luxury (like caviar, eg) but still in the bounds of generosity and festivity. A meal should feed the body, certainly, but also give us modest pleasure, at least. I am reminded of 'Babette's Feast' - the sisters dined 'adequately' but with no pleasure. Surely, Babette went 'over the top' (lavish excess) - but what joy she gave them.

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Cath Kerry link
2/1/2020 02:24:17 pm

It was difficult to get my message across. I am not a killjoy but follow the Epicurus belief in punctuating our life and the year with "ceremonies" or milestones, like birthdays, anniversaries, cultural traditions (both secular and religious). These pauses give us opportunities to connect. I would go with "ample".

But I am sickened by the hype and the advertising which, let's be honest, we find difficult to ignore. We are told how to feel, how much and when. We are now seeing Hot Cross Buns in January!

Remember Rosa, you and I are cooks and can make a feast out of simplicity. Babette fell into a dour and desiccated community which she enriched with her small touches (foraging!) as you and I would have done.

And I must confess, I don't actually see Babette's great dinner as extravagant or over the top. It was simple, elegant perfection. (I'm smiling a little.) But remember that it was very much for her, her wish. She asks, slipping out of Danish into French, that she be allowed to prepare "un vrai diner français". It's all about her BUT it has a major effect on the diners. This is the most poignant scene of the film IMHO.

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Maggie M
30/12/2019 01:42:05 pm

Feeling down? A Cath Kerry post cheers one up on many levels
Thank you and please keep them coming
Love Maggie

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Cath link
2/1/2020 01:58:19 pm

Thank you Maggie. We all need cheering up. Warm, best wishes to you and your family.

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